Anonymous asked: what are safe sites where I can look fir a Dom?
Everything, especially the internet, is only as safe as ‘you’ make it.
So use common sense. Don’t go giving out your full name, address, or information about your work place of school.
Set up your meetings in a public place for coffee, make sure someone knows where you are going, how long you will be there, and when they should expect a call from you to tell you that your alright.
As for the websites themselves, fetlife.com and collarme.com are the first two that come to mind.
Both have their share of creeps, but they also have some good people as well.
So remember, common sense.
Fetlife.com wher I met my curant mistress and maybe i got lucky but hit it off real good. Acouple hours away and work scedules keep us away during the winter but we make up for it in the summer :)